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POLL: Does Ban on Gays Hurt Boy Scout Organization?

Despite protests, the 112-year-old organization has decided the exclusion of gay participants is the best decision for the Boy Scouts of America.

A Scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent — but not gay.

After a two-year review, the Boy Scouts of America on Tuesday reaffirmed its decision to exclude homosexuals from participating in the 112-year-old organization's events.

The group cited parental support, as being the main driver in keeping the policy.

Deron Smith, a national spokesman for the Boy Scouts, told The Associated Press that an 11-member committee thought the decision "is absolutely the best policy" for the organization.

However the decision has drawn criticism from the gay community. Darlene Nipper, deputy executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, told AP that the Scouts, "have turned their backs on a chance to demonstrate fairness, exercise sound judgment, and serve as a role model for valuing others."

What do you think? Should the Boy Scouts accept openly gay members into the organization? Should the organization be allowed to limit membership?

Vote in our poll and then sound off in the comments section below.

JoSCh July 23, 2012 at 02:24 pm
Oh, so it's just the reply button, reading comprehension, and being a decent human that are difficult for you. I'm glad you found the dictionary but be careful; if you learn things you may lose your regressive tendencies and won't have as many things to hate.
SDR July 23, 2012 at 03:26 pm
See?
Too clever by by half
JoSCh July 23, 2012 at 03:54 pm
I'd much rather be confident and right than confident and wrong. Seriously, quit being so stupid and then acting like it's the right thing to do, like it's ok.
SDR July 23, 2012 at 04:10 pm
So you are the arbiter of right? You parrot some silliness you paid to hear and IT is right. There is nothing new under the sun and this too shall pass away.
John H July 24, 2012 at 02:34 am
To Stanley and JoSCh; “For example, Penn State, The Catholic Church, the citadel, pinewood, and how many are covered up...and
I did not mention pedophiles. I wrote “predators”. Pedophiles are not the only potential perpetrators of sexual abuse to impressionable boys. Sexual is not the only type of abuse. There also is physical (hazing) and mental (neglect and inappropriate indoctrination) to name a few. Please note that both adults and youths, also hetero and homo sexuals can perpetrate abusive behavior toward a Scout. The BSA is dedicated to keeping the youths in the organization safe. They require parents and Adult Leaders to train, recognize, and report abuse. The example I offered of Penn State and the Catholic Church is an example of failure of entrusted institutions to protect the youths and report abuse, not to equate homosexuals with pedophiles. http://www.scouting.org/filestore/ypt/pdf/100-015.pdf http://www.scouting.org/scoutsource/HealthandSafety/GSS/gss01.aspx BSA has adopted policies to eliminate the potential for abuse but it still happens causing great suffering of the victims. Therefore it should come as no surprise that the BSA errs on the side of safety when it considered its recent decision. To JoSCh; …”radicalized Republicans failing to understand what words mean Stanley.” In order to understand what words mean you have to read them correctly. I wrote predators.
stanley seigler July 24, 2012 at 06:02 am
@John H: 'The example I offered of Penn State and the Catholic Church is an example of failure of entrusted institutions to protect the youths and report abuse, not to equate homosexuals with pedophiles... I wrote predators.'
agree there is criminal failure of entrusted institutions (and government agencies) to protect our children and the least... tho you did seem to relate...assume you correctly do not relate homosexuals with pedophiles...apologies for my misunderstanding... so now to the issue...just what is your position re homosexuals in the BSA...do you believe homosexuals are more likely to be pedophiles than straights...
JoSCh July 24, 2012 at 11:21 am
Here is exactly what he typed
"If an acknowledged gay leader has contact, there is a potential for unsuitable interaction, ranging from counseling regarding the subject outside of the boy’s family environment to terrible abuse by a predator." This says that a gay person is MORE LIKELY to be a "predator" and also says that the fact that some people are gay is unsuitable interaction that requires counselling. And while I do acknowledge that I misread your exact wording, it's abundantly clear what you meant. Just admit that you think gay people aren't worthy of the rights of other people, embrace your bigotry and move on. I assume I'll be waiting forever to see an example of a gay pedo as the men in the Catholic church and at Penn State weren't. Come to think of it, you attend church, right? Coach any youth sports?
John H July 24, 2012 at 02:33 pm
To JoSCh; "I do acknowledge that I misread your exact wording,"
The great JoSCh admitted he made a mistake. This is momentus. I do admit that my initial reaction would be of much trepidation to sending my boys off to a weekend trip or weeklong summer camp with a Gay man. It's just the way I'm wired. I'm sure many parents feel the same way. But I can certainly overcome it, given time. "I assume I'll be waiting forever to see an example of a gay pedo " I have no knowlege of such things and never claimed to have.
stanley seigler July 24, 2012 at 05:18 pm
@John H:
"I [josch] assume I'll be waiting forever to see an example of a gay pedo"...I [johnh] have no knowlege of such things and never claimed to have. perhaps john h makes the mistake many/most of us do...stating our prejudices as facts when indeed we 'have no knowledge of such things.'...then; we crawfish when asked for specifics... but an interesting point arose from this discussion...seems all media accounts of 'yute' abuse is perpetuated by straights...and by the most trusted straights: priest and coaches...cant recall media account of homosexual abuse of our youth... OTOH who knows what goes unreported...another thought/opine: seems an openly gay person is less likely to abuse than a closeted straight predator. now my turn to crawfish...i 'have no knowledge of such things.'
John H July 24, 2012 at 05:23 pm
To Stanley; “so now to the issue...just what is your position…
A fair question presented in the spirit of objectivity, very refreshing. This is an issue that is intensely personal to me. I do not myself have a problem with Gays including Gay Scouters. However, I have to support BSA’s decision for the reasons I gave. I believe it’s for the greater good for now. The BSA has made a tough choice, and my previous statements followed by an admission that it is difficult to overcome something that you have learned since childhood. It’s hard to teach an old, bigoted, and flawed dog new tricks. As far as whether or not homosexuals are more likely to be pedophiles, I’ll leave that one to the PHD’s.
JoSCh July 24, 2012 at 06:26 pm
Yeah, it's momentus all right. I might be the first commenter on patch to admit a mistake. Still it's more or less a technicality, you meant that gay people are more likely to be predators towards kids than straight people.
You say that you'd feel trepidation, that it's the "way you're wired" and then say you may get over it given time which while a bit contradictory is also progress, which is great. How much longer do you think before your unfounded prejudice subsides?
JoSCh July 24, 2012 at 06:36 pm
John H, speaking of refreshing, way to own up.
I have to apologize for accusing you of being one of the increasingly radical Republicans, it would appear you're radical tendencies are less than I recall or you've toned it down, either way that is just great. FWIW I support the BSAs right to exclude whomever they want, although I think they should lose their tax protection. Of course, I think pretty much all groups should lose their tax protection...
JoSCh July 24, 2012 at 06:46 pm
Are you just stringing together aphorisims now?
I can certainly identify what is right and wrong, if that makes me the arbiter of right in your mind then so be it. You think I paid to figure out that all men are equal? Nah, that's free info. In fact some of us think it's self evident.
John H July 25, 2012 at 01:40 am
To JoSCh: “How much longer do you think before….”
It’s not like there’s a switch that can be turned on and off. I constantly struggle to reconcile the realization that there is a higher power that put me here to find dignity and respect in all creations. It takes persistent effort and time with some setbacks. The timetable is not mine to control.
John H July 25, 2012 at 02:05 am
To Stanley; …”interesting point arose from this discussion...seems all media accounts”
It does seem that when the media reports an abuse it is assumed the perp is a deviant and is gay. This is an unmerited characterization. Another thing for the PHd’s to clarify. Is there such a thing as an omnisexual?
JoSCh July 25, 2012 at 03:19 am
It's assumed the perp is deviant and gay...
Well, they are deviant. And gays are deviant. But not all deviants are gay. Like how all squares are rectangles...
stanley seigler July 25, 2012 at 03:40 am
@John H: '...it is assumed the perp is a deviant and is gay. This is an unmerited characterization...Is there such a thing as an omnisexual
not sure 'is assumed' and media does not say perp was a homosexual... omnisexual above my pay grade...my point/concern is homosexuals are no more deviant (w/ respect to child abuse) than straights...but to continue with where i think you go: are there three sexes: male, female, homosexuals... butt perhaps discussion is not related to the thread: 'Does Ban on Gays Hurt Boy Scout Organization' and nuff said...
Robert Kelly July 26, 2012 at 12:15 am
What is difficult to understand is how the defenders of the BSA claim they are supporting boys at a critical time in their lives and helping them to move into responsible adulthood...but they don't want to do this for the benefit of boys who are, or might be, gay! Why don't you want gay boys to have a safe haven and the training to be responsible adults? Boys of that age bracket who are gay have enough issues of confusion and doubt already, and the BSA doesn't want anything to do with them either? Nice attitude. Thanks for nothing. The last thing we as a society want is for young gay children (yes, boy scouts are still children even as they work toward Eagle Scout) to have good role models for responsible adult behavior and self development and self respect.
By the way, I can't remember but I am sure someone here can help with remembering what the argument was 100 years ago when the BSA would not accept boys of color into the organization?
John H July 26, 2012 at 01:37 am
To Stanley; “…discussion is not related to the thread: 'Does Ban on Gays Hurt Boy Scout Organization' and nuff said...
Capital idea. I think that on an ideological plane the decision hurt. The courage wasn’t there to go against the wishes of the parents. However, as far as membership and enrollment numbers, it may have kept parents from pulling their children out of the program. Just my opinion from observing the reaction of members from other institutions that took an inclusive stance.
JoSCh July 26, 2012 at 01:56 am
"... as far as membership and enrollment numbers, it may have kept parents from pulling their children out of the program. Just my opinion from observing the reaction of members from other institutions that took an inclusive stance."
I can't think of anything LESS American. And few things as sad. Alas Babylon.
JoSCh July 26, 2012 at 02:03 am
Safe haven? Amongst all those Republicans, deeply religious, and married men? Hardly a safe haven, nobody rapes as many boys as that unholy trinity.
/just kidding, sort of. The numbers actually do prove that out // still waiting on a pedo that isn't at least one of the unholy trinity, I have literally hundreds that ARE.
stanley seigler July 26, 2012 at 03:34 am
@Robert Kelly: '...Why don't you want gay boys to have a safe haven and the training to be responsible adults... the argument was 100 years ago when the BSA would not accept boys of color into the organization?'
thanks for crystallizing the issue... 'pray there aint no hell'...we (normals?) have much to answer for...eg, 100 yrs ago making children of color feel inferior...and now making those of different emotional tendencies feel they have to hide in a closet... indeed Jesus wept/weeps...
stanley seigler July 26, 2012 at 04:30 am
JoSCh: '...just kidding, sort of...'
just kidding and humor sometimes get to the truth... re: indeed Jesus wept/weeps...[stanley] PS. is weeping...as are we all who care and are not controlled by our prejudices.
william clark July 27, 2012 at 03:44 am
Laura : Christ commands His People to expose those people and their sins , He said to reprove them before all. Yes God Loves His people and has commanded all men to repent and believe the Gospel, and said that ye must be Born again of the spirit. Christ did not condone the womans sin, He told her to go and sin no more.Christ knew she had sinned , but those men who broght her also had done the same sin as the woman. that is why they left , Christ knew their heart and what they had done as to this matter of sexual misconduct . God is first Holy, this is what most today forget.
william clark July 27, 2012 at 03:55 am
Luke: you can't be a christian and be a Homosexual . there is no such thing in Gods word. God condemns that type of sexual conduct. it is taught all though the Holy Bible which is God's word to man . to be taken in by this worldly religion of the devil is catching alot of well meaning people in that lie. The Scout oath begins with "On my Honor" I will do my best to "God" and my Country, see God comes first , and the scout says they will keep Morally straight". So you see those scouts who say they were Homosexuals were not Honest, they were "deceivers" and that is the worse type . and their surely not Christian. They can't be and still live that lifestyle of sin before a Holy and Just God. There is no repentence in them by their own words .
william clark July 27, 2012 at 04:05 am
Bridget: I was A Scout back in the late 40's and we did not allow Homosexuals in the org. then . it was not to be allowed . the standards were to keep young men as Moral and upright and believers in God and Christ and the Moral precepts that the Bible teaches. These type of people want to destroy every org. and close every church door that speaks against their immoral sexual lifestyle. This is their agenda from the beginning do not be deceived by them or the churches that have caved in to their intolerance , read what God's word says of them and others who sin against God and man . can you believe what 1.5 % of our population has done to society and the Family unit so far ?. it is a shame and a sin what they are doing in the name of "Lust"
JoSCh July 27, 2012 at 12:54 pm
If there were no gay scouts in your troop then there were some liars...
I've seen nobody on this thread trying to close any church doors. Quite the contrary. Also, unsurprisingly you're another intolerant person who doesn't know what intolerance means.
martin, bob September 19, 2012 at 07:25 pm
Does Ban on Gays Hurt Boy Scout Organization?
No 67% It is the organization's right to limit their membership.
JoSCh September 19, 2012 at 07:41 pm
Third straight post that doesn't contain a lie. Way to go!
reg September 19, 2012 at 07:52 pm
scamper bob is scampering from poll page to poll page to repeat the results of unscientific polls. (again, you can sign in with as many different user names as you like, and repeat votes over and over again, too, but you're not making people overlook the disclaimer term "this is not a scientific poll")

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